Saturday, September 11, 2010

Donations!

Hey everyone,

As I mentioned previously, many of our friends have created teams for Komen Race for the Cure and Avon.

The links are below. Please support one, some, or all of the teams. Thanks!

Also, for those in Charlotte, there are two upcoming happy hours to help raise money and support Nicole:

Sept 22nd @ Crave, 5:30 - 8:30
Sept 23rd @ Mortimers, 7pm

Nicole and I will be there, and look forward to seeing anyone who can come out!

http://www.avonwalk.org/goto/Kerry.Thomas
www.avonwalk.org/goto/beccawalke


Wednesday, September 8, 2010

1 down, 3 to go...

The first chemo treatment is over! Nicole is waking up as I type from a 4-hour nap, but besides the grogginess she feels perfectly fine right now.

We had one minor complication today, though at the time it sure seemed more than minor. A small percentage of patients receiving the drug Taxotere have a strong allergic reaction, much like what you would experience if you were allergic to a bee sting. And you guessed it, Nicole was one of the small percentage.

15 minutes into receiving the first drug, everything was fine and spirits were high (as high as you can get in a chemo treatment room, I try to crack as many stupid jokes as I can). I got up to refill the water bottle, and by the time I got back the nurses were sprinting in Nicole's direction. Apparently it happens that fast, she was fine when I stood up, and 20 seconds later began to have tightness in her chest, have trouble breathing, start to go numb, and then start to black out.

Though we know now it was nothing serious from a medical standpoint, it certainly registers very high on the fear scale, and Nicole and I were pretty shaken at that moment. The doctors and nurses were great, and within a few moments had different medications flowing through the IV to counteract the allergy, and things were fine within minutes. They told us they can never know who will react that way, but once they do it can be controlled by simply taking medications (like Benadryl) before the Taxotere, so the body can relax and receive the drug. Once they knew, she was able to take the drug without much problem (and managed to nod off to sleep).

So Nicole has been napping all day because of the heavy anti-allergy drugs she received, just like anyone else would react to doing a few shots of NyQuil. Other than that, it was a pretty standard day of chemotherapy!

Thanks again for all the support. We're off and running...

Monday, September 6, 2010

Chemo...

Hello,

Well it's been over 2 weeks since I last posted, and we're officially moving onto the next phase.

First, we confirmed with the Oncologist here in Charlotte that chemotherapy was indeed the recommended course and the safest way to proceed. While nothing is ever certain with cancer, we decided that the small decrease in recurrence rate shown through trials was worth the short-term impact. Nicole will have 4 treatments of 'TC,' every three weeks, starting Wednesday the 8th. That means Nicole is going to need all of your support more than ever over the next 3-4 months as she encounters all the typical joys that chemo brings.

Second, we met with the fertility doctors again, and came to a crossroads deciding how we would help our chances at having kids. We could freeze eggs or try a drug called Depo Lupron. The Depo Lupron has been used in a few clinical trials and showed promise at 'protecting' the ovaries during chemotherapy. Essentially, the drug sends the ovaries into temporary menopause, which acts to preserve the eggs from the harm of the chemotherapy drugs. For many reasons, really too many to mention here, we decided we would go with the Depo Lupron, and Nicole received her first injection yesterday. If all goes according to plan, Nicole will only take that throughout her chemotherapy, and then within a few months afterward should get back to normal as her hormone levels return to that of a typical 32 year old.

Finally, I hope everyone is gearing up for Breast Cancer Awareness month in October! We have many friends and family who have started teams in several races/walks and are already raising so much money. We can't thank everyone enough for jumping into the fight, and those of you who haven't signed up or donated, it's time to dust off the running shoes and reach for the pocketbook. We're all in this together, and if we can prevent one other person from going through this, it's well worth our efforts. Later this week, I will be posting links to the different teams supporting Nicole, please check back and help us beat this stuff.

Think Pink!